AVEM TIMP .....
( varianta completa de Octavian Paler )
" AVEM TIMP pentru toate : sa dormim , sa alergam in dreapta si-n stanga, sa regretam c-am gresit si sa gresim din nou , sa-i judecam pe altii si sa ne absolvim pe noi insine .
AVEM TIMP sa citim si sa scriem , sa corectam ce-am scris , sa regretam ce-am scris ... AVEM TIMP sa facem proiecte si sa nu le respectam ; AVEM TIMP sa ne facem iluzii si sa rascolim prin cenusa lor mai tarziu ...
AVEM TIMP pentru ambitii si boli , sa invinovatim destinul si amanuntele ...AVEM TIMP sa privim norii , reclamele sau un accident oarecare ; AVEM TIMP sa ne alungam intrebarile , sa amanam raspunsurile ...AVEM TIMP sa sfaramam un vis si sa-l reinventam ; avem timp sa ne facem prieteni , sa-i pierdem ; AVEM TIMP sa primim lectii si sa le uitam dupa aceea ...AVEM TIMP sa primim daruri si sa nu le intelegem ... AVEM TIMP PENTRU TOATE !
NU E TIMP doar pentru putina tandrete . Cand sa facem si asta ...murim .
Am invatat unele lucruri in viata pe care vi le impartasesc si voua :
Am invatat ca nu poti face pe cineva sa te iubeasca . Tot ce poti face este sa fii o persoana iubita . Restul ... depinde de ceilalti .
Am invatat ca oricat mi-ar pasa mie ... altora s-ar putea sa nu le pese .
Am invatat ca dureaza ani sa castigi incredere ...si ca doar in cateva secunde poti sa o pierzi .
Am invatat ca nu conteaza CE ai in viata CI PE CINE ai .
Am invatat ca te descurci si iti e de folos farmecul cca. 15 minute . Dupa aceea , insa ar fi bine sa stii ceva .
Am invatat ca nu trebuie sa te compari cu ceea ce pot altii mai bine sa faca CI cu ceea ce poti tu sa faci .
Am invatat ca nu conteaza ce li se intampla oamenilor CI conteaza ceea ce pot eu sa fac pentru a rezolva .
Am invatat ca oricum ai taia ... orice lucru are doua fetze .
Am invatat ca trebuie sa te desparti de cei dragi cu cuvinte calde . S-ar putea sa fie ultima oara cand ii vezi .
Am invatat ca poti continua inca mult timp dupa ce ai spus ca nu mai poti .
Am invatat ca sunt oameni care te iubesc , dar nu stiu sa o arate .
Am invatat ca prietenia adevarata continua sa existe chiar si la distanta ...iar asta este valabil si pentru iubirea adevarata .
Am invatat ca nu este intotdeauna de ajuns sa fi iertat de altii . Cateodata trebuie sa inveti sa te ierti pe tine insuti . Am invatat ca indiferent cat de mult suferi , Lumea nu se va opri in loc pentru durerea ta .
Am invatat ca daca doi oameni se cearta , nu inseamna ca nu se iubesc . Si nici faptul ca nu se cearta nu dovedeste ca se iubesc .
Am invatat ca viata iti poate fi schimbata in cateva ore de catre oameni care nici nu te cunosc .
Am invatat ca scrisul ca si vorbitul ...poate linisti durerile sufletesti .
Am invatat ca oamenii la care tii cel mai mult ...iti sunt luati prea repede .
Am invatat ca este prea greu sa-ti dai seama unde sa tragi linie intre a fi amabil , a nu rani oamenii si a-ti sustine parerile .
Am invatat sa iubesc .... Ca sa pot sa fiu iubit . "
AVEM TIMP !
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serafim
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maxxim
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dinubocos
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excalibur
Si varinta in engleza...
OCTAVIAN PALER
We have time
We have time for everything
Sleep, run back and forth,
regret we made a mistake and err again
judge others and absolve ourselves,
we have time to read and write,
edit what we wrote, regret what we wrote,
we have time to make projects and never follow through
we have time to dwell in illusions and stir through
their ashes much later.
We have time for ambitions and diseases,
to blame destiny and details,
we have time to look at the clouds, at the ads, or some accident, we have time
to chase away our questions, postpone our answers, we have time
to crush a dream and reinvent it, we have time to make friends,
to lose them, we have time to take lessons and forget them
soon after, we have time to receive gifts and not understand them. We have time for everything.
No time, though, for a little tenderness.
When wenre about to do that, too, we die.
I learnt some things in life that I want to share with you!!!
I learnt you cannt make somebody love you. All you can do is be a beloved person. The rest...depends on the others.
I learnt that however much I care,
Others might not care at all.
I learnt that it takes years to gain trust and that you can lose it in just a few seconds.
I learnt that it doesnnt matter WHAT you have in life, but WHOM.
I learnt you can get by and your charm is useful for about 15 minutes. After that, however, yound better know something.
I learnt that you should not compare yourself to what others can do better--
But to what you can do better.
I learnt that it doesnnt matter what happens to people
But what I can do to help them.
I learnt that no matter how you cut it,
Every thing has two faces.
I learnt you need to part with your loved ones with warm words,
It might be the last time you see them.
I learnt that you can carry on for a long time
After you said you cannt.
I learnt that the heroes are those who do whatns needed, when needed,
No matter what the consequences.
I learnt that there are people who love you,
But donnt know how to show it.
I learnt that when I am angry, I have THE RIGHT to be angry.
But I donnt have the right to be a bastard, too.
I learnt that true friendship continues to exist even at a distance. And this is also true for real love.
I learnt that, if somebody doesnnt love you like you want them to,
It doesnnt mean they donnt love you with all their heart.
I learnt that no matter how good a friend is,
He will nevertheless hurt you every once in a while,
And younve got to forgive him for this.
I learnt that itns not always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes younve got to learn to forgive yourself
I learn that no matter how much you suffer,
The world wonnt stop in its tracks because of your pain.
I learnt that your past and circumstances might influence your personality
But YOU are responsible for what you become.
I learnt that if two people argue, it doesnnt mean they donnt love each other
And the fact that they donnt argue doesnnt prove they love each other.
I learnt that sometimes younve got to put a person first,
And not his deeds.
I learnt that two people can look at the same thing
And see two completely different things
I learnt that no matter what the consequences
Those who are honest with themselves go farther in life.
I learnt that your life can change in the course of a few hours
By people who donnt even know you.
I learnt that when you think younve got nothing to give
When a friend calls for you, younll find the strength to help him.
I learnt that writing,
Just like talking,
Can soothe the pain in your soul.
I learnt the the people you love the most
Are taken away from you much too soon.
I learnt that itns too hard to realize
Where to draw a line between being nice, not hurting people, and standing up for your beliefs.
I learnt to love
So I can be loved.
OCTAVIAN PALER
We have time
We have time for everything
Sleep, run back and forth,
regret we made a mistake and err again
judge others and absolve ourselves,
we have time to read and write,
edit what we wrote, regret what we wrote,
we have time to make projects and never follow through
we have time to dwell in illusions and stir through
their ashes much later.
We have time for ambitions and diseases,
to blame destiny and details,
we have time to look at the clouds, at the ads, or some accident, we have time
to chase away our questions, postpone our answers, we have time
to crush a dream and reinvent it, we have time to make friends,
to lose them, we have time to take lessons and forget them
soon after, we have time to receive gifts and not understand them. We have time for everything.
No time, though, for a little tenderness.
When wenre about to do that, too, we die.
I learnt some things in life that I want to share with you!!!
I learnt you cannt make somebody love you. All you can do is be a beloved person. The rest...depends on the others.
I learnt that however much I care,
Others might not care at all.
I learnt that it takes years to gain trust and that you can lose it in just a few seconds.
I learnt that it doesnnt matter WHAT you have in life, but WHOM.
I learnt you can get by and your charm is useful for about 15 minutes. After that, however, yound better know something.
I learnt that you should not compare yourself to what others can do better--
But to what you can do better.
I learnt that it doesnnt matter what happens to people
But what I can do to help them.
I learnt that no matter how you cut it,
Every thing has two faces.
I learnt you need to part with your loved ones with warm words,
It might be the last time you see them.
I learnt that you can carry on for a long time
After you said you cannt.
I learnt that the heroes are those who do whatns needed, when needed,
No matter what the consequences.
I learnt that there are people who love you,
But donnt know how to show it.
I learnt that when I am angry, I have THE RIGHT to be angry.
But I donnt have the right to be a bastard, too.
I learnt that true friendship continues to exist even at a distance. And this is also true for real love.
I learnt that, if somebody doesnnt love you like you want them to,
It doesnnt mean they donnt love you with all their heart.
I learnt that no matter how good a friend is,
He will nevertheless hurt you every once in a while,
And younve got to forgive him for this.
I learnt that itns not always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes younve got to learn to forgive yourself
I learn that no matter how much you suffer,
The world wonnt stop in its tracks because of your pain.
I learnt that your past and circumstances might influence your personality
But YOU are responsible for what you become.
I learnt that if two people argue, it doesnnt mean they donnt love each other
And the fact that they donnt argue doesnnt prove they love each other.
I learnt that sometimes younve got to put a person first,
And not his deeds.
I learnt that two people can look at the same thing
And see two completely different things
I learnt that no matter what the consequences
Those who are honest with themselves go farther in life.
I learnt that your life can change in the course of a few hours
By people who donnt even know you.
I learnt that when you think younve got nothing to give
When a friend calls for you, younll find the strength to help him.
I learnt that writing,
Just like talking,
Can soothe the pain in your soul.
I learnt the the people you love the most
Are taken away from you much too soon.
I learnt that itns too hard to realize
Where to draw a line between being nice, not hurting people, and standing up for your beliefs.
I learnt to love
So I can be loved.
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nicuvar
Mie mi se potriveste la fix.
Iubesc si sunt iubit (in familie).
Iubesc pe toata lumea si incerc sa ma fac iubit.
Daruiesc tuturor tot ce stiu si imi place sa primesc de la altii.
Am gresit si am fost iertat, la fel cum si altii au gresit si i-am iertat.
Am suferit mult, ce a fost mai greu a trecut si acum ma bucur de fiecare clipa.
Pe mine ori ma iubeste cineva ori nu ma poate suferi. Cale de mijloc nu exista. De ce, nu stiu. Eu sunt la fel cu toata lumea.
Dar nu sunt trist. Sunt poate cel mai optimist om de pe pamant.
Iubesc si sunt iubit (in familie).
Iubesc pe toata lumea si incerc sa ma fac iubit.
Daruiesc tuturor tot ce stiu si imi place sa primesc de la altii.
Am gresit si am fost iertat, la fel cum si altii au gresit si i-am iertat.
Am suferit mult, ce a fost mai greu a trecut si acum ma bucur de fiecare clipa.
Pe mine ori ma iubeste cineva ori nu ma poate suferi. Cale de mijloc nu exista. De ce, nu stiu. Eu sunt la fel cu toata lumea.
Dar nu sunt trist. Sunt poate cel mai optimist om de pe pamant.
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kko
Unii sunt intr-o permanenta criza de timp si nu vad nimic. Sau ceea ce vad si simt depinde de moment si de inspiratie.Ori de aspectele "comerciale" ale timpului pierdut ca sa inteleaga.
Ce este cert, este faptul ca cei mai multi suntem limitati de timp ca sa intelegem profund. Iar cand am avea nevoie de aceasta intelegere, este prea tarziu...
Ce este cert, este faptul ca cei mai multi suntem limitati de timp ca sa intelegem profund. Iar cand am avea nevoie de aceasta intelegere, este prea tarziu...
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serafim
KKO - ai perfecta dreptate siiii daca gandesti asa sa stii ca nu-mi mai este frica sa vin cu tine sa salvam balene 
Dinule- daca tot staaaai opreste macar cronometru...ca nu ai pe cine taxa....si plata ta....va fi in ceruri
si ce am scris anterior voia sa sune ... a "...trist, dar, adevarat " in sensul ca prea tarziu iti dai seama ce multe ai pierdut...cu, cronometrat timpul..., aiurea-n tramvai etc. si lucrurile importante le-ai tratat cu indiferenta sau le-ai amanat spunand...pt. asta mai am timp....sau ...nici maine nu este tarziu.
PAREREA MEA !!!! FARA ALUZII sau ILUZII !!!
spunand asta ma refer la :
- sa-i spui unui oarecare ...un cuvant bun sau sa-i dai o speranta .. in loc sa te rastesti la el sau sa te certi cu el...
- sa ai timp !!! pt ai tai...( neamuri, prieteni, cunostinte etc )
- sa oferi dragoste, iubire,intelegere nu doar sa astepti sa primesti...
- sa incerci sa fii mai bun, mai umil, mai intelegator cu cei din juril tau..ca poate maine nu mai ai cu cine...
- sa-ti para rau ca ai ajutat pe cineva degeaba ...decat sa regreti ca nu ai facut-o etc.;
DAR pt. a fi asa trebuie sa acumulezi oarece experienta "negativa " in sensul sa patesti ceva rau ca sa-ti dai seama de adevaratul sens al binelui, fericirii etc.
de obicei esti de acord cu unul care este la greu , la suferinta, anaghie DAR nu-l poti intelege numai daca ai trecut si tu printr-o experienta asemanatoare ..in rest orice-i spui se rezuma la un fel de bla, bla, bla...
poate am luat-o eu pe ulei, practic am cazut in BUTOIUL CU MELANCOLIE siiii vreau sa ies din el...nu cum gresit ati interpreta citind aceste randuri caaaa.vreau sa va trag langa mine....
Dar ajunge cu filozofia mea de BUTOI, hai sa ne mai inveselim ca viata...nu este tocmai roza ..." prietenii stiu de ce .."
Dinule- daca tot staaaai opreste macar cronometru...ca nu ai pe cine taxa....si plata ta....va fi in ceruri
si ce am scris anterior voia sa sune ... a "...trist, dar, adevarat " in sensul ca prea tarziu iti dai seama ce multe ai pierdut...cu, cronometrat timpul..., aiurea-n tramvai etc. si lucrurile importante le-ai tratat cu indiferenta sau le-ai amanat spunand...pt. asta mai am timp....sau ...nici maine nu este tarziu.
PAREREA MEA !!!! FARA ALUZII sau
ILUZII !!!spunand asta ma refer la :
- sa-i spui unui oarecare ...un cuvant bun sau sa-i dai o speranta .. in loc sa te rastesti la el sau sa te certi cu el...
- sa ai timp !!! pt ai tai...( neamuri, prieteni, cunostinte etc )
- sa oferi dragoste, iubire,intelegere nu doar sa astepti sa primesti...
- sa incerci sa fii mai bun, mai umil, mai intelegator cu cei din juril tau..ca poate maine nu mai ai cu cine...
- sa-ti para rau ca ai ajutat pe cineva degeaba ...decat sa regreti ca nu ai facut-o etc.;
DAR pt. a fi asa trebuie sa acumulezi oarece experienta "negativa " in sensul sa patesti ceva rau ca sa-ti dai seama de adevaratul sens al binelui, fericirii etc.
de obicei esti de acord cu unul care este la greu , la suferinta, anaghie DAR nu-l poti intelege numai daca ai trecut si tu printr-o experienta asemanatoare ..in rest orice-i spui se rezuma la un fel de bla, bla, bla...
poate am luat-o eu pe ulei, practic am cazut in BUTOIUL CU MELANCOLIE siiii vreau sa ies din el...nu cum gresit ati interpreta citind aceste randuri caaaa.vreau sa va trag langa mine.... Dar ajunge cu filozofia mea de BUTOI, hai sa ne mai inveselim ca viata...nu este tocmai roza ..." prietenii stiu de ce .."
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roxanagalateanu
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kko
Nu inteleg Serafime de ce ti-a fost frica ? Eu nu mananc oameni ...A salva belene, constituie o atitudine pozitiva... intre timp, m-am hotarat sa salvez si delfinii chiar si alte animale....Fiintele pe care noi le consideram "neganditoare", au al saselea simt care nu depinde de timp (timpul nostru alocat pentru a gandi... ) Sunt mai "naturale" si, din multe puncte de vedere, nu "au nevoia" sa solicite vreun interviu lui Dumnezeu...serafim wrote:KKO - ai perfecta dreptate siiii daca gandesti asa sa stii ca nu-mi mai este frica sa vin cu tine sa salvam balene
Dar , trebuie sa plec, NU MAI AM TIMP (pentru o perioada)
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dinubocos
[quote="serafim"]
Dinule- daca tot staaaai opreste macar cronometru...ca nu ai pe cine taxa....si plata ta....va fi in ceruri [/quote]
Draga Serafim, daca imi dai voie sa-ti spun asa, ca Ildi nu ma lasa, sunt un om practic. Daca n-am pe cine taxa ma taxez pe mine. Si platesc dintr-un cont in altul. Sau pentru a evita plata comisioanelor bancare, dintr-un buzunar in altul.
Dinule- daca tot staaaai opreste macar cronometru...ca nu ai pe cine taxa....si plata ta....va fi in ceruri
[/quote]Draga Serafim, daca imi dai voie sa-ti spun asa, ca Ildi nu ma lasa, sunt un om practic. Daca n-am pe cine taxa ma taxez pe mine. Si platesc dintr-un cont in altul. Sau pentru a evita plata comisioanelor bancare, dintr-un buzunar in altul.
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